My feelings exactly. I took it off today and put the OEM one back on. Its very sensitive, kind of a hair trigger on a precision rifle that you have to shoot with your left foot...that has a boot on it. The couple of good shifts I got were so precise and crisp, but that was maybe 3 out of 20 shifts. Lots of fails.
I had emailed Cordona and asked if it were possible to increase the force needed and they said its a voltage thing, and not adjustable. The bike supplies +5V to the QS, and at rest it sends about +2.5V to the ECU. For an upshift it sends a +3.3V signal and for a down a +1.7V. If you have the tool you can read the voltage the QS is sending and if you push or pull harder it will change, but as soon as the ECU sees its target, it cuts or blimps.
Kill times are adjustable in the ECU and Ducati uses different times depending on where you are in the RPM range but that's not really where the change is needed.